Monday, March 16, 2009
hey folks...thought to restart my long lost blog....not quite on a bloggin mood...yet it wudnt do any harm to pen down some miseries of my life..ill get to the story....i kinda got in a fight wid a frnd...well not exactly a fight..more like an argument..watever it is..he isnt talkin to me...and im missin my dear buddy terribly!!! i swear upon god..i dint do anythin wrong..infact i hav no clue wat i did..for him to be ignoring me....guys are sooo weird..nyways my point is....im feelin gloomy....melancholic....im not being myself tday..........i hav an exam comin up on 19th....got tons to study...and my mind is wanderin elsewhere.....i askd him wat i did wrong...he replied.."figure it out by urself"....wateva..thrs nothin to figure out...he tried to irritate me....and he got wat he askd for..yes a very ugly piece of my mind..hehee...well..noone can play wid my temper tantrums...for i can unleash the "bitch" restin within myself nytime..nyday..nywhere.... :-P gosh wat'll i do to make the boy talk!!!!! pour in ur views my fellow bloggers...n well wishers :D tat means you...mrs MB.......
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oh my oh my ! you seem to be passing through another storm ! can you tell me when exactly this happened??
"Words when spoken can never be taken back" so be careful. Haste is waste. A quick apology will make YOU feel better. But since only you know what you said ;- you will need to think about it deep and hard, LATER.
You can't make someone talk , guy or gal! You can take a horse to the water , you can't make it drink !
For now put these things aside and get to the books Reshma. You have so much going good for you. Don't let your emotions get the better of you . Make a time table and don't waste another minute till the 19th.
There is a problem , and to tell you the truth , I kinda saw it coming. Your monthly hormones seem to be really screwing you up- so not your fault :)
Stay happy . Be nice to yourself. Drive the "Bitch " in you away-ain't doing you any good now, and will never ever be your friend in need. Trust me . We can talk about this later. Now cheer up :)..............mb
ur rite Mrs MB....my "monthly" hormones are screwin me up royally....actually nothin serious happnd..in fact our fight is a silly one....u see...my frnd..was askin me some "general knowledge" questions.....and i suck @ gk...so i cudnt answer a few..this frnd of mine was like...oh well im not surprised..and bla bla....n startd teasin me...i can bear tat..thn he was like..."y dont u ask ur aunt these qtns...may b u cud hear some hilarious answers" --- tis statement pissd me off..instead of bein quiet..i askd him to ask his relatives the exact qtns..so tat he can hear some great answers as well....thn he got mad and hung up..,he messaged me tat i dint "talk" rite...for christs sake..he had it comin...i mean...my aunt is very much an educated woman....she cudnt complete her PG though..neyways...so i dint like his comment....then he texted me sayin tat he dint like the fact tat i told upon his mother...i nevr did tat!!!!i said "relatives" ..i dint say "mom"...guys can be..ohh gaah..neways...i thought to giv an apology..and he was all like...i hav evry right to be angry at u...i mean seriously ...shudn't i be the one whoz supposd to b angry @ him...so i dint say anythin..i said..i dont find any fault wid me...tat ended our conversation...well texting...he hasn't responded since..neithr hav i....im keepin myself idle for the time bein..coz i got an exam comin up..cant get frustrated upon silly matters..phew...a confession feels gud indeed!!
Crishna Crishna ! This is sooo petty.Glad you feel better getting this off your chest. This is the usual "he said , she said" thingi. Just imagine if you had only kept quiet , now HE would be the one apologising to you!
Moral of the story :
1. Develop the art of SELF PRIDE through verbal restraint !
2.There is another way of beating this "buddy " to his game - take up General Knowledge. Yes,do a page a day, after your exams , and start quizzing him .Though not with a vengeance,okay! It will take you much further in life compared to those eventually with the exact same qualifications as you . Seriously.
3. After your exams , would also suggest you try Ayurveda first because your mom maybe also be more receptive to that . You certainly have some extra pittam!! They will advice you simple basic lifestyle changes and ofcourse some diet too, but not necessarily totally veggie, which I know will be v difficult for you , but definitely elimination of heat producing foods like garlic , onions,pickles,meat etc and also avoid being out in the sun too much . And include cooling foods like milk, watermelons and being in cool places. Sounds weird eh? but it works when done all together .And they will also help with reducing the monthly flow-most likely with Ashoka arishtam. You must tell all your problems, headaches, sleeplessness, choclate carvings, losing temper, cramps-they will TOTALLY understand you. This is v v common , so dont think its just you okay !
For now whenever you are provoked try a little restraint or walk away on some excuse. If you are at home, drink some cold water or take a cold bath ! Will help you get off the edge atleast temporarily.
Now back to books Reshma, be well, be happy and smile :) Remember you are just as special and just as smart as anyone else. You just have to put some real EFFORT and show the RESULTS.
Good luck on your exams !!
.................mb
thanks mrs mb..feels real gud...gettin advices frm ya..dont ya think its high time...i get to u know u a wee bit more....i mean...not like the 'anonymous thingy'..u know...i dnt mind gettin acquainted wid a well wisher :P
oh dear there we go again! ok Reshma in due course you can know the 'wee bit'!
tat aint fair mrs MB!!
Ok! instead of ridiculously going back and forth on this silly matter, what is the 'wee bit " you want to know ?
But you must make some promises first. That you will try your best to walk away from situations that do not quite bring out the best in you. And also promise that you will think twice before you blurt out writing /saying things in an argument with anyone at all :) No more talk of "bitches" and all that holy crap ie unholy crap :)
If we have a deal, then go ahead ask me a few questions and let me see........:)mb
ps: you did not write anything about your exams. How did it go? Did you do as well as you had wanted to?
well my first exam went well...i mean i wrote a lotta things...hopefully its alrite.....i wanna knw some things abt u..first of all..im sure u hav a blog as well..temme abt it...and lil abt urself..like maybe ur name!!wat u do...bla bla bla..the usual introductory stuffies..and i promise..ill try to be a 'goody goody'...lolz..dont get me wrong..i really am...but whn i write in my blog..my frustrations takes control of me.....neways..hoping to get a gud reply frm u..and ur where abouts :)
o-o! Didn't mean to make you an artificial "goodie goodie"! Nope! No way!You have such a creative flair, why would anyone suggest you curb that ! Just felt you could channel it into greater things--that's all! You are a good person at heart , no doubt about that and I am sure you have a lot of lady like finesse!.
But you know, our words/thoughts(especially when we are frustrated) have a cascade effect. I am not saying its a 100% effect-but u know, stuff happens! And then we wonder why that happened.
But if we just let out our better senses prevail then we see things properly . Didn't mean to sound so "teachy preachy", but it just came out again ha! ha !
Here is a popular saying :
"Watch your thoughts , they become words.
Watch your words , they become actions.
Watch your actions , they become habits.
Watch your habits, they become your character.
Watch your character, they become your destiny"
Now regarding your qtns. Well, Reshma if I can make anyone person feel better, that is more important than what my identity is.
Nevertheless I will write to you directly soon ok! ...............)mb
lukin forward to it :-)
i like candy
who cares wat u like ram!!
Hi Reshma, Sorry ! got v busy . Whats your email address? It is not posted where it once was...........mb
its rose4u49@yahoo.com...
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